Man, that’s a lot of protein, and obviously lean protein. My diet is more fat heavy, and I’ve been working on upping my protein, but trying to get 150g hasn’t been easy (no criticism, just marveling at that 220+ you’re doing).
The numbers say you should be losing weight. Calculators suggest you’d lose 1/2# per week at 2280 cal/day at normal (“somewhat active”) activity levels. Then you’re adding the the biking and lifting on top of that. So if those exercise sessions are burning 500 cal per session (an hour at 130watts, roughly, so probably low estimate, depending on your fitness level) beyond your base activity level, that could be another 3/4 to 1# per week, theoretically. Don’t know what your ftp is running right now, as obviously there can be a sizeable difference in cal/hr burned from a 150 ftp to a 350 ftp individual. That leaves Sat & Sun as the oddball days, and it looks like you eat an additional 1000 cals on Sat…not out of line for a 3hr ride.
You said you’re getting stronger, and you’re losing about a # per month, but you’re not losing fat…are you sure your body comp isn’t shifting those fat lbs to muscle lbs?
My RMR is less than 100 higher than yours. I have my base calorie goal set at 1830 per day (goal 1.5# loss per week) focusing on hitting protein and fat goals (usually end up with 100-150g carbs), and then I add the exercise calories for that days specific workout, being conservative (err on the low side) with those exercise calories. So, my method is probably more of a targeted carb intake.
If I do z2 or weights/bands (I’m not lifting heavy just living room dumbell with shoulder problems work), I let my regular meals fuel it (that 1830 cal/day), plus I’ll add half the burned calories to my regular meals budget, so that will result in 300 cals (up to 500 if 1.5 hr z2) added to get a revised 1830+300 calorie budget goal for that day, and TRY to hit it, but sometimes I end up eating the whole 1830+600 (but that still puts me at a 700 cal deficit for the day because my 1830 budget, AND if I eat another 200 calories, I’m still at 500cal=1#/wk deficit).
A 60min indoor threshold or VO2 workout, add the full calories burned to my daily budget (so 1830 + 800 or so for the day), and to fuel it I’ll take in 30-60 grams (so up to about 250 calories before/during the ride), and then eat the other 550 during the rest of the day in meals or snacks.
My outside weekend rides are mtb or mixed road/gravel on my mtb (sandy national forest roads) of 1.5 to 3 hrs. Same deal, I have my base 1830 cal budget for the day and then I add carbs specifically for the ride (usually in the 60-75 g/hr range similar to you). These usually end up being (per my HR that Ive been tracking for years) like 40% z3 and close to the same % z4, so I spitball my calories at 600 or 800 calories per hour (depending on how much time I spent up near threshold, and I usually go 700 for the longer rides, because there’s more recovery time), so I end up with a budget for the day of 1830+1400ish calories, and usually over eat some.
I easily lose a pound a week this way…went from 209 to 197 in June & July last year, averaged about 6 hrs per week on the bike, and felt pretty good (started Nov 2022 at 219 but had some personal stuff come up in Feb last year, so got going in the right direction again in June). I’m not a good dieter, because I have little self control and snack a lot, so I yoyo a lot, and I’m notorious for being able to gain weight, even while I ride 7-10 a week (lately), so this has worked for me for many other weeks, just not strung together very well because I have weeks where I blow the diet . Maybe I’d do better to budget 2030 and shoot for 1# per week.