I’m 5-10” 39, 153lbs, the tdee tells me 1949 to maintain, and MyFitnessPal gives me 2030. I think for your build if you want to lose a lb a week, you’ll need to be more in the 1500 calorie range as your base(that 1890 number looks about right to me).
My personal experience having lost 29, 28 and 22 lbs, with a bit of rebound each time, but also going from 212 to 153 lbs over 7 years.
I used MyFitnessPal to set my maintenance calories, and checked it against the tdee calculator mentioned in this thread. I choose sedentary for activity level because it’s pretty true, outside of the cycling calories I’m not doing much else. Then cut 500 a day. Which is 2030-500=1530 for me and it has come within close to 1 lb a week in my 80 lbs of weight loss.
For all my cycling I find the power meter whether through TR or Garmin runs a bit lower than HR based calorie calculation and a lot lower than Wahoo’s HR based calories. I use the Wahoo App with the Tickr for any mtb stuff(without a power meter there) and notice it’s probably 25% higher than Garmin. I always adjust down if using Wahoo’s HR output.
I find that managing on a 500 calorie deficit is doable, but I need to plan my day, prefuel and fuel sensibly, and then taper out the day. The worst days are the rest days, by far. Which luckily I only have one per week. On that day I usually give myself a bit of flexibility to eat.
It’s definitely a balance between restricting for weight loss and compromising ability to perform and gain.
On the performance end I’ve managed to build a bit of FTP, currently around 4.3w/kg while cutting calories. On MV plus 1 hr endurance.
In my experience, setting outcome and process goals, understanding realistically how long the process will take, being honest with myself, meticulous and scientific in my approach was helpful.
Good luck!